Khimar Clothing in Malaysia

This afternoon, I went to Giant Mall to withdraw some money and to buy some food. When I was on the way out. I saw two woman walking towards the entrance. One with casual attire while the other one was full on khimar. She also wore a veil.

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As soon as I saw her, a thought came into my mind. 

Will this really make her further away from people's eyes or making people wants to see her more?

You ask why I am asking like this. 

Firstly,

This is Malaysia.

  

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It cannot be denied that the women in Malaysia do not wear veil in everyday attire and now to wear veil with khimar. That will really make you standing out lady!

I am not saying that Khimar clothing in Malaysia should not be done, it's your choice. I understand.

However, just a thought provoking question to those lady out there,

Are you  making people look at you even more or making yourself  guarded from those evil eyes?

I know some of us lady really pious and religious. And even a hafizzah, But I do know some hafizzah, and when i look at them, i don't see any mysterious, weird veil on them. And those friends of mine are really nice and religious too. 

You may argue that, khimar and veil is how you choose to obey Allah's command. Well, i respect that. Me, myself, i was from a religious school. I learn Islam. and maybe your knowledge in Islam is much much better than me. 

But try to listen and give this some thought. 

Other than that, I was also disturbed with our young Muslim ladies in Malaysia who wear veil as a trend!

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They wore veil but showing their hands on Instagram, selfie on Instagram

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those pictures are some example from thousands of picture women using niqab as trends. 

I mean if you want to cover yourself, then why would you show people you hand. On top of that, you are making your social accounts in public? 

Check your genuine intentions in wearing those veils. are you really wear that a way for you to get closer to Allah or vice versa?

Wish you all the best. Be true to yourself.

bisikan kalbu

Dalam aku mencari intipati rahsia kehidupan yang ditakdirkan untuk diri ini, aku bingung dan resah melewati setiap duri dan haruman wangi mawar merah di sepanjang perjalananku. Keperitan dan kelukaan yang aku rasai membuatkan tiada titisan air mata yang jatuh membasahi pipi. Entah bagaimana harus aku jelaskan pada diriku ini agar berhenti berharap pada sesuatu yang sudah pasti.

Dalam aku meneroka rahsia Ilahi untuk insan kerdil ini, hati terdetik untuk mencari yang hakiki. Namun tersedar diri akan banyaknya khilaf diri hingga malu untuk meneruskan pencarian mencari Tuhan yang kekal abadi. Banyaknya nikmat Tuhan yang diberikan ke atas manusia di bumi, tetapi lupa untuk bersyukur atas setiap anugerah yang dilimpahi.

The Nanny Diaries Review

Yesterday I got the chance to watch a movie named The Nanny Diaries. It was quite an old 

movie. It was aired on 2007. The main character is Annie Braddock played by Scarlett 

Johansson. 

So, what's about this movie that makes it really interesting for me to write a review after 

several years it was screened? 

Firstly, I am gonna summarised a bit of the story. This movie is about Annie Braddock,a 

 

 recently graduated college student who wants to find a job. However, when she went to

an interview, she suddenly frozen when the interviewer asked her a question" who is Annie

Braddock?" She knew it was not a trick question but she just didn't know what to answer. 

Some time after that, as Annie was sitting on the bench at a park, she thought to herself 

that she had decided to be a Central Park bag lady(i don't think she meant it literally).

It's weird but, mostly due to the competitiveness  to find a job. 

But suddenly, she saw a boy nearly got into an accident and there her life changed. She 

introduced her name as Annie but the mother of the boy got confused, calling her nanny. 

she was offered a job as a nanny. 

Basically, from my point of view, this movie is a satire story trying to portray the impact of 

parents neglection towards their children. Why? because there is a scene from the movie, 

where the little boy, Grayer the one Annie took care of, was scared of clowns and instead of 

hugging his mother he went straight to Annie. This really shows that if a mother keeps on 

letting nanny to manage her son, the son eventually lost their love to their parents. It's a 

fact. children loves their parents unconditionally but parents sometimes forget that this 

unconditional love will not last. there will be a time where a neglected child will see their 

parents as strangers if the parents not giving the love and attentions the child acquire.

okay, i think i need to mention about a hot guy in the story. Well it's Captain America!

He's so gorgeous! Besides, i thought his character in the story is just a cliche appearance of a hot guy in a movie. where there's heroine, there will be a hero. well, it was not entirely about that.

There was a scene in the movie,

This scene was telling a brief background about him. Oh, in this movie, Captain America is 

called Harvard Hottie. Yeah, he is hot. Harvard Hottie was telling Annie that his mother was 

dead and his dad was busy with work. So, he was basically raised by nine nannies which 

eventually end after he went to boarding school. 

So, what's so important about his background? you can tell that if Mrs. X(Grayer's Mother) 

keeps on neglecting Grayer, it would be same as she was dead. Plus Grayer's dad was too 

busy in Chicago(he's having an affair although he told his wife the trip is a business trip)

consequently, the experience that Harvard Hottie had being through might also happen to 

Grayer. Grayer would be raised by nine nannies or more in fact if the situation remained the 

same. 

After all, this movie really shows to us the different socio economy in a society, there's still a

lot more about the movie, but unfortunately i have to go. Spend some time to watch this. 

you will not regret!.